Men can neglect themselves, dress poorly,
and have bloated bellies.
Nobody will point this out to him.
Many nerds are like that and are well accepted by society.
On the other hand, if a woman neglects herself or becomes fat then she is misjudged.
Even today there are such prejudices in judging a
man or a woman.
Also, an anorexic woman
can work on TV and other
places. A fat woman is not.
The fat shows.
Instead, thinness can
be disguised.
This is something that
increases anorexia and people
keep saying that being thin is good and fat is bad.
So fat women destroy
themselves even more because
they don't see themselves
valued by society.