Men should never marry because I hear a lot about husbands and they all complain about wives. Wives talk too much, buy too much, talk and talk, are too lively, or too sulky.
All husbands speak ill of their wives. According to them they don't do enough, they talk too much and they talk too much.
Every husband is in love at the beginning of the relationship and then starts to see flaws and everything that is wrong with his woman. The woman is disappointed by this unexpected attitude but tries to continue the relationship because she loves him. Oh yes, women have a disproportionate love, more towards others than towards themselves and sometimes, indeed often, they cry secretly, they wait, they try to understand, they become hysterical or depressed.
Men should never marry because if they need a maid they can pay for it. So they avoid making their wives feel bad and always complaining about them. They should always give them flowers and chocolates and say nice things. Instead, love becomes a nuisance for them and they prefer to be with colleagues and friends, they prefer to go out for a beer or wine, and they go to play football but they never play with their children. Husbands would like all their wives dead but then if they die they feel lost and yet soon after they take a young girl and the wife is all but forgotten. Then let them get a girlfriend instead of a wife. But then the girlfriend also starts talking too much and making too many demands. The girlfriend spends too much and they start complaining about her too. Men should stay alone and never have children or wives.
Wow… Glad I didn’t marry Everyman.
You’ve described most of the unredeemed men in the world, but the ones I know, especially the ones in my church (I know, I’m always bragging about my church…) love their wives the way the Bible says to, because Christ makes them “new creations.” ( Ii Corinthians 5:17)
A lot of people get angry if we try to tell them about Jesus, but really, He’s what the world needs. So I’ll keep talking about Him to the ones who will listen.
I have already said and specified in my post that I have listened to many husbands, at the gym, around supermarkets, with my relatives, on the web, with colleagues, at work..and in other environments, and these husbands said all these things about their wives. So far there are very few husbands who say nice things about their wives. So it’s not something I made up but I’ve heard real and virtual people talk about their women and define them in a certain way, sometimes they do it openly and sometimes they do it secretly, because they don’t want to lose their wives. But I assure you that there are many husbands, and specifically husbands and not single men, who think this way as I wrote in my post.
THE PRODIGY OF IDEAS 
Mar 26, 2023 @ 11:46:42
Wow… Glad I didn’t marry Everyman.
You’ve described most of the unredeemed men in the world, but the ones I know, especially the ones in my church (I know, I’m always bragging about my church…) love their wives the way the Bible says to, because Christ makes them “new creations.” ( Ii Corinthians 5:17)
A lot of people get angry if we try to tell them about Jesus, but really, He’s what the world needs. So I’ll keep talking about Him to the ones who will listen.
Mar 26, 2023 @ 15:34:52
Yikes!
It occurs to me that perspective and perception tinged with confirmation bias have influenced your view.
Mar 27, 2023 @ 07:46:55
I have already said and specified in my post that I have listened to many husbands, at the gym, around supermarkets, with my relatives, on the web, with colleagues, at work..and in other environments, and these husbands said all these things about their wives. So far there are very few husbands who say nice things about their wives. So it’s not something I made up but I’ve heard real and virtual people talk about their women and define them in a certain way, sometimes they do it openly and sometimes they do it secretly, because they don’t want to lose their wives. But I assure you that there are many husbands, and specifically husbands and not single men, who think this way as I wrote in my post.
Mar 27, 2023 @ 12:34:41
As you see it!
Apr 08, 2023 @ 14:12:51
our culture has many deep and increasingly frightening rifts, always good to speak up about them.